Cultivating Patience When You Are Still In Love With Your Ex

Publié par Unknown on jeudi 28 novembre 2013

By Gregory Hayes


Do you feel your ex slipping away from you little by little every day? Are you clinging to your old relationship and wishing that your ex would reach out to you? Are you settling for scraps of attention from the one you love with all your heart?

Even though it's perfectly normal to worry and feel down about your breakup, if you're serious about getting her back you need to get tough with yourself.

You need to be sure of yourself again before you move forward with your plan to win her over or your body language and tone of voice is going to give away your doubts and turn her off. Having self-confidence and being self-assured is a big part of attracting your girlfriend back. But what can you do to eliminate the doubts and fears? What can you do when you become jealous or feel like quitting?

Taking some time to grieve can be important. Allowing yourself some time to cry, become angry or upset and feel those feeling is important. Denying these emotions might cause problems later on in life.

While you might wish that your ex would come back to you immediately, it rarely happens as quickly as we might like. Have you noticed that the harder we push and the more we concentrate on winning back the love of someone dear to us, the further they drift from us. The more desperate we are to win back the affections of the one person we love, the more they reject us. This is why you must be patient. You must understand that it might take a little bit of time for the dust to settle from your breakup and for the healing to begin. If you are constantly asking your ex to come back to you, the answer will always be no.

Any time you feel these doubts and anxieties coming to mind when you start to think about getting back together with your ex, look past them and know that in the future things will be different. Your ability to get back together with your girlfriend is all within your hands and the sooner you get your life back together and get back to being the kind of guy that she used to enjoy spending time with, the sooner she'll be back in your life again. Acting crazy and worrying and being depressed isn't going to win her over. Being funny, cool and knowing in your heart that she will fall in love with you again will get her back.

You very well might find that your ex will come back to you when you least expect it. Often when we're in the middle of making big changes in our life and we're not focusing on a relationship, the love of our life comes back to us. When we stop focusing on the problem, the solution presents itself or the problem resolves itself all on its own. By focusing on your breakup and the heartache that you're feeling, you give this problem energy and power to control your life. Once you forget about it and instead focus on yourself, things begin to change.

Will she start calling you or texting you and eventually she will start being around you more often or will it all happen in an instant? Will she just show up at your door and want to get back together? It's all up to you. It's your dream and those thoughts will help you get through the tough moments and enable you to gain the confidence that you need to win your girlfriend back.




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