Patience is probably a virtue that you wish you had when it came to getting back together with your girlfriend. The torture of every day apart from her and the anguish that goes along with that. Worrying that with every passing day the chance of her finding someone else and moving on with her life without you increases. With every passing day you feel her drift away from you. You become less and less important to her and you're sure that the odds of her coming back to you grow slim. You search for an answer. You try to solve the riddle and understand what you need to do to get her back before it's too late.
It's natural to be a little anxious about getting your girlfriend back. It's natural to get upset, nervous, suspicious and jealous. It's natural to doubt that she'll ever give you that second chance but the fact is that these emotions can cause us to do drastic things that can kill our chances of winning back the woman that we love. Our impatient nature can cause us to do stupid things that actually make matters worse rather than better.
You try to think logically about your breakup and what you should do to get her back. You followed your gut. You tried talking with her and telling her that you're sorry and that things are going to change. You remembered every word that she said when she broke up with you and agreed to change every little thing that you could think of that was bothering her. You would be a changed man and you would be the best boyfriend in the world because of the love that you have for her.
After you discover that trying to talk things through or apologizing didn't get you what you want, you might try something just a little bit different. You might come up with the bright idea that if you were the perfect boyfriend that she would see how much you love her and she would want to come back to you. You could buy her the perfect gift that would touch her heart. You would tell her that you love her and she would fall into your loving arms. If that didn't work then you would beg her to take you back. You would play off of her sense of sympathy and pour your heart out to her while hoping that she would see how important she was to you. Surely, your tears would mean something to her and she would at least try giving your relationship a second chance.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
In order to change your ex-girlfriend's mind you need to understand how women think. The only thing that will get your girlfriend to come back to you is love. So, in order for her to change her mind she has to feel a deep and abiding love for you again. You see, it's more than a decision that she made between the two of you when she left. She told all of her friends and her family that she was breaking up with you. When she comes back to you, she is going to have to explain everything to all of those people why she has changed her mind and the only thing that can make a woman do something like that is a form of female insanity called love.
Emotions should be at the core of your plan to win her back and they should also be absent in your decision making when it comes to your plan. It is simple to make her fall in love with you again. You did it before. At that time though, you weren't as emotionally charged as you are right now. Your plan needs to be cold and calculating and without emotions. It is only when we men become emotionally involved that we make mistakes after a relationship ends. If you didn't care then it would be simple for you to get her back. You love her though so you're going to have to keep your emotions in check and learn a little patience if you hope to win her over again.
It's natural to be a little anxious about getting your girlfriend back. It's natural to get upset, nervous, suspicious and jealous. It's natural to doubt that she'll ever give you that second chance but the fact is that these emotions can cause us to do drastic things that can kill our chances of winning back the woman that we love. Our impatient nature can cause us to do stupid things that actually make matters worse rather than better.
You try to think logically about your breakup and what you should do to get her back. You followed your gut. You tried talking with her and telling her that you're sorry and that things are going to change. You remembered every word that she said when she broke up with you and agreed to change every little thing that you could think of that was bothering her. You would be a changed man and you would be the best boyfriend in the world because of the love that you have for her.
After you discover that trying to talk things through or apologizing didn't get you what you want, you might try something just a little bit different. You might come up with the bright idea that if you were the perfect boyfriend that she would see how much you love her and she would want to come back to you. You could buy her the perfect gift that would touch her heart. You would tell her that you love her and she would fall into your loving arms. If that didn't work then you would beg her to take you back. You would play off of her sense of sympathy and pour your heart out to her while hoping that she would see how important she was to you. Surely, your tears would mean something to her and she would at least try giving your relationship a second chance.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
In order to change your ex-girlfriend's mind you need to understand how women think. The only thing that will get your girlfriend to come back to you is love. So, in order for her to change her mind she has to feel a deep and abiding love for you again. You see, it's more than a decision that she made between the two of you when she left. She told all of her friends and her family that she was breaking up with you. When she comes back to you, she is going to have to explain everything to all of those people why she has changed her mind and the only thing that can make a woman do something like that is a form of female insanity called love.
Emotions should be at the core of your plan to win her back and they should also be absent in your decision making when it comes to your plan. It is simple to make her fall in love with you again. You did it before. At that time though, you weren't as emotionally charged as you are right now. Your plan needs to be cold and calculating and without emotions. It is only when we men become emotionally involved that we make mistakes after a relationship ends. If you didn't care then it would be simple for you to get her back. You love her though so you're going to have to keep your emotions in check and learn a little patience if you hope to win her over again.
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