Basic Principles Of Positive Parenting

Publié par Unknown on vendredi 26 septembre 2014

By Erich Park


You've probably heard of positive parenting, but if you haven't, it's a type of parenting wherein you focus on your children's abilities and strengths as you raise them. However, this doesn't suggest that you ignore the negatives like disruptive behavior. Child disciplining is an important part of parenting, as well as ensuring your children behave in a way that is within the limits you've set. Today, though, our focus is going to be on the kind of parenting wherein positive behavior is encouraged and rewarded.

For instance, you're going to take an active interest in the life and activities of your child. Positive parenting also involves maintaining a healthy and open line of communication between you and your child. Below are a few things you can do to become a positive parent.

One challenge that all parents face is to be as consistent as possible with their kids. Naturally, there will be changes in some rules as children get older. Your approach on certain things will need to be adjusted from time to time so you have to be flexible. All in all, though, consistency is something you must practice in relation to the rules you set for your kids to follow.Also, you and your spouse should be on the same page concerning the rules. If both of you give the wrong signals, your children will only become confused. Make other people (e.g., babysitters, relatives) aware of the rules you've set for your children so that they won't stray from those rules when they're with your children.

If you want to practice positive parenting, one of the things you need to do is spend time with your children. You may be busy with work and other responsibilities, but understand that one of your priorities should be to make time for your children. Parents who play with their kids, go places with them and take the time to talk to them every day will form a strong and lasting bond with them. Attend your child's school pays or athletic events. Very often, behavior problems occur when children feel neglected and need attention. Your child's well-being is one of your top priorities so it's important that you make the time to spend some quality time with him or her.

Learning positive parenting skills and applying those skills are things that any parent can do. Positive parenting doesn't require special skills. If you want to practice this parenting approach, you only need to have a willingness to learn. It can be very challenging at times to find enough time to give your child the attention he or she needs. However, keep in mind that children feel a lot more secure when they know that their parents are actively involved in their lives.




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