Is there any way that we can know for certain if if our marriage is going to thrive or fall apart? Maybe not, but this article is going to explain how you will know for sure if your marriage will fail. If you had to pick one thing that would decide whether or not your marriage would survive or not, what do you think it would be?
Most people will actually say "conflict". If you are always fighting then that can't be good for your marriage, right? Wrong
The truth of the matter is that it is actually the complete opposite. Studies actually have proven that avoiding fights with your spouse is sure fir predictor that your marriage will not survive. It's kind of strange how we try to avoid fighting with our spouse thinking that we are benefiting our marriage. When in fact we are doing the complete opposite.
Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not saying that you should go and pick a fight with your spouse. Starting fights for a happy marriage doesn't work either. I am just saying that people in healthy marriages fight. In other words, it is a sign that you truly love one another when you are willing to fight for your marriage. To be happily married, you just have to learn how to fight well.
A successful marriage is about learning how to master discussing your differences in a healthy manner. now this is not something that most come by naturally. It is something that we must learn how to do over time. But once you do learn how to fight properly then your disagreements can actually help you build a stronger bond.
Now you can agree or disagree with me here but every successful couple fights because whether we like it or not no to people are perfectly compatible. Keep in mind though, having your difference is very healthy.
Most people think that the only way to succeed in marriage is to find the right person. This is not true, it's about learning how to fight with the person you already have in your life. The truth is, you will have differences with anyone that you get into a relationship with. The deciding factor is whether or not you can learn to discuss your disagreements.
Most people will actually say "conflict". If you are always fighting then that can't be good for your marriage, right? Wrong
The truth of the matter is that it is actually the complete opposite. Studies actually have proven that avoiding fights with your spouse is sure fir predictor that your marriage will not survive. It's kind of strange how we try to avoid fighting with our spouse thinking that we are benefiting our marriage. When in fact we are doing the complete opposite.
Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not saying that you should go and pick a fight with your spouse. Starting fights for a happy marriage doesn't work either. I am just saying that people in healthy marriages fight. In other words, it is a sign that you truly love one another when you are willing to fight for your marriage. To be happily married, you just have to learn how to fight well.
A successful marriage is about learning how to master discussing your differences in a healthy manner. now this is not something that most come by naturally. It is something that we must learn how to do over time. But once you do learn how to fight properly then your disagreements can actually help you build a stronger bond.
Now you can agree or disagree with me here but every successful couple fights because whether we like it or not no to people are perfectly compatible. Keep in mind though, having your difference is very healthy.
Most people think that the only way to succeed in marriage is to find the right person. This is not true, it's about learning how to fight with the person you already have in your life. The truth is, you will have differences with anyone that you get into a relationship with. The deciding factor is whether or not you can learn to discuss your disagreements.
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