Learn About The Art Of Flirting

Publié par Unknown on lundi 7 avril 2014

By Brett Vaughan


Flirting is known to be a helpful skill that some people have while some have to acquire it through practice in order to master it. The basic rule of learning the art of flirting is overcoming the fear of strangers whereby one assumes that every stranger is dangerous. Instead, people should take advantage of the anonymity of flirting with a stranger or any random person.

For people who are not comfortable with the idea of approaching people confidently, one has to practice this art by trying as much as possible to approach random people and try to make a conversation. This way, one prepares themselves for meeting the right person because there is no damage done when one makes the fool out of themselves since one may probably never meet this person again.

Basically, the more one practices this art the more they get comfortable in doing it as one learns what is good for them and how to take a blow of their ego especially when rejected. Once one has perfected doing it with strangers it is usually time to move to semi-stranger and so on as one gets better at it. With time, one gathers the confident to approach the person that has been making your pulse speed up.

Usually some people may appear intimidating and as a result, people are cautious of approaching them for fear of rejection; what most people do not know is that they are likely to also be interested in them but are just waiting for someone to approach them. However, this is usually easier for people used in exchanging phone number and saliva as they are confident enough to know that there are some people out there who are interested in them.

Normally, flirting begins with the eyes, then to the mouth and some coyness or shyness especially for women. This tends to be different for men and women as men are only expected to portray boldness and not shyness which is seen as attractive when done by women. With time, women have grown confident enough to be the once doing the approaching and not waiting for the men to do it.

There is no definite place that is appropriate for flirting although the clubs are believed to be, and therefore, people should at least be able to read signals and take hints. For example, when one blinks, smiles or act coy it should be evident that they hinting you to approach them. Even so, too much of it can be creepy and off-putting as the lady doing it may seem desperate.

Flirting is a process that hints one step to the other; it starts with hints from the eyes, goes to a smile and body language which show that it is the right time to approach. The ability to ignite a conversation is indispensable as one need to keep the conversation flowing just to avoid the awkwardness especially when it is a stranger. With time, one should initiate some coziness just to break the touch barrier but ensure it is not offensive.

There are certain rules of the game that one should consider for a successful flirting moment and still make it interesting. As hard as it might be, leaving when the conversation gets juicy is the best move to make if you are anticipating for a second date. This is because you will leave them at a good note and at a suspense whereby they would like to meet again and continue from where you left.




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