Culture Influence On Arab Dating

Publié par Unknown on samedi 14 mai 2016

By Rebecca Bell


After puberty people start developing some different attraction towards an opposite gender. This makes one to get attached and start liking another person. This makes people to get committed into relationships. However being that no oath is taken many people do not take it seriously . Influence of culture on Arab dating is great. Their tradition does not allow this kind of relationship before marriage.

Their culture is a religious one. This is because most of them are Muslims . Relations between male and female must be modest . If they are to spend time together they should be at an open place. Their culture tries to radius sexual immoralities . That is why these relations are discouraged. This has helped ladies preserve their dignity for years. As sex before marriage is a sin.

Relationship between a male and female is only encouraged when they are serious about it. These means they are ready to get married after they both discourse about it. One is never forced to marry if they choose not to. Parents may sometimes advice their children on who to marry. If they do not like that particular person they do not marry. If someone is attracted to a certain person they can Mary them with blessings from parents. This is done when a male introduces a lady to their family or when seeking a hand in marriage.

When their parents agrees their relationship is blessed and a wedding ceremony is planned. In some cases parents refute on such agreements. To do his parents must be having doubts about morals of the chosen spouse. In such a case parents do not bless their relationship. This means that no wedding will take place . According to them when a marriage is not blessed due to various reasons that are authentic it does not stay for long.

Marriage is done as soon as possible . This is to decreases chances of one sinning . Their ceremony takes three days and nights . These is done in two separates rooms . Males gather in one room inside a mosque while females gather at another place. This is done as per Islamic beliefs. In Islam marriage is a religious ceremony that needs respect. The NIKHA should not have music being plaid. This is because music is HARAM in Islam.

This ceremony should be simple as possible. It should not consume much money. Marriage is considered as a praise ceremony. That is why it is done in a humbling manner. In some cases this whole presses takes place in a conference hall. After three days they start their relationship having blessing from God and parents. Most relationships last till death separates them.

This ceremony is usually cherished and respected by many people. That is why people in Arabian region follow their culture strictly. Girls who engaged in sexual interaction before marriage mostly luck people to marry them. If they do they are married as third or fourth wife . This makes them to abstain from relationships before marriage.

There is a harsh punishment for unmarried people who are in illicit affairs this include adulterous people. These punishments serves as an example to others making them to wait till they get married.




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