Making the decision to get your ex back can be a complicated one. Family and friends might want to advise you to move on and find someone new. Counselors might even give you the same advise. Of course, your heart is telling you to do something completely different.
Your decision to wait things out or to try to get back together with your ex is your decision to make. You don't have to have the approval of your friends and family or even listen to anyone that might tell you that you're making a mistake. Often by following our heart, our dreams become reality and the dream of being with the one that you love isn't such an outlandish dream, is it?
Those close to you might be very influential upon your decision. They care about you. They've seen the pain in your eyes and heard your cries for the pain in your heart to stop. It's only natural that they suggest that you move on and find someone new. This is popular advice given in such a situation and it is a temporary fix for the pain that you're feeling. They might not understand the connection that you feel with your ex and the love that you have for them. Nobody else can feel exactly what you feel right now.
It might be easier on you if you do decide to try to win your ex back that you keep it to yourself. While your family and friends might want you to feel better, chances are that they aren't going to be very supportive when you're having a difficult day. You might feel lonely keeping this dream to yourself but often well-meaning friends can hurt us without knowing it when you tell them that you miss your ex. They might try to remind you again that the best thing that you can do is to forget about your ex and try to destroy your dream instead of supporting you.
Keeping this secret desire alive and well in your heart is the key. Treat it like a precious gift that you don't want anyone to destroy. Think about it logically. Your ex was in love with you not so long ago. Feelings like that don't die. There are thousands of instances of people getting back together even when you might look at the situation and think that there was no chance. You might even know of couples that overcame huge obstacles and even appeared to hate each other who were reunited. Is your situation so impossible in comparison to these other couples?
Treat yourself each and every day by spending some time before you go to sleep thinking about your dream. Close your eyes and smile. Think about how it will feel when your ex kisses you for the first time. How will it feel when they wrap their arms around you and tell you that they have missed you? Are you smiling now? Dream of spending a holiday together or going on a vacation together. Let your dreams be big dreams and allow your mind to wander. Be sure that all of these things and more will happen in your life and banish all doubts during this time.
This is your life and these are your dreams. Let yourself go and create the kind of happy life that you want each and every night. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to be loved by who you desire in the exact way that you dream of. You have a choice in life. You can be happy or you can be miserable. Your dreams and thoughts dictate what you get in life. Let your thoughts, dreams and your attitude be positive and things will begin to change. This means every aspect of your life including who you love and how they love you. Getting back together isn't impossible and it all begins in your heart and your dreams. Don't let anyone destroy either of them.
Your decision to wait things out or to try to get back together with your ex is your decision to make. You don't have to have the approval of your friends and family or even listen to anyone that might tell you that you're making a mistake. Often by following our heart, our dreams become reality and the dream of being with the one that you love isn't such an outlandish dream, is it?
Those close to you might be very influential upon your decision. They care about you. They've seen the pain in your eyes and heard your cries for the pain in your heart to stop. It's only natural that they suggest that you move on and find someone new. This is popular advice given in such a situation and it is a temporary fix for the pain that you're feeling. They might not understand the connection that you feel with your ex and the love that you have for them. Nobody else can feel exactly what you feel right now.
It might be easier on you if you do decide to try to win your ex back that you keep it to yourself. While your family and friends might want you to feel better, chances are that they aren't going to be very supportive when you're having a difficult day. You might feel lonely keeping this dream to yourself but often well-meaning friends can hurt us without knowing it when you tell them that you miss your ex. They might try to remind you again that the best thing that you can do is to forget about your ex and try to destroy your dream instead of supporting you.
Keeping this secret desire alive and well in your heart is the key. Treat it like a precious gift that you don't want anyone to destroy. Think about it logically. Your ex was in love with you not so long ago. Feelings like that don't die. There are thousands of instances of people getting back together even when you might look at the situation and think that there was no chance. You might even know of couples that overcame huge obstacles and even appeared to hate each other who were reunited. Is your situation so impossible in comparison to these other couples?
Treat yourself each and every day by spending some time before you go to sleep thinking about your dream. Close your eyes and smile. Think about how it will feel when your ex kisses you for the first time. How will it feel when they wrap their arms around you and tell you that they have missed you? Are you smiling now? Dream of spending a holiday together or going on a vacation together. Let your dreams be big dreams and allow your mind to wander. Be sure that all of these things and more will happen in your life and banish all doubts during this time.
This is your life and these are your dreams. Let yourself go and create the kind of happy life that you want each and every night. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to be loved by who you desire in the exact way that you dream of. You have a choice in life. You can be happy or you can be miserable. Your dreams and thoughts dictate what you get in life. Let your thoughts, dreams and your attitude be positive and things will begin to change. This means every aspect of your life including who you love and how they love you. Getting back together isn't impossible and it all begins in your heart and your dreams. Don't let anyone destroy either of them.
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