Are you someone who gets nervous easily when you see a beautiful woman and have no idea how to go about approaching that girl you like? This is a very common reaction that most men have, and it is certainly possible to get over this nervousness if you know exactly how to approach. Most men do not have the nerves the approach the girl they like and even if they do, have no idea how to proceed after even after starting up a conversation with the girl. In this article, I will share you some key tips that will make sure you make a successful approach every time.
Limit your time with her after the first approach
It is not wise to have long conversations with a girl on the first approach. Most men are prone to making this mistake in the dating world. On the first time approach, a girl will always excuse herself claiming that she needs to be somewhere else. This is natural for most women. This means that you should be able to find a reason to keep the first time approach short and quick. This will prevent you from making some obvious mistakes that could ruin your chance with her.
2. What Then Should You Do When You Approach a Girl You Like?
Asking or giving too much information on the first time you are approaching a girl might make her uncomfortable. Remember that you are a stranger to her. In that case, you should ask for her contact information like her phone number. The conversation should be short as it is only meant for introductions. After getting her contact details, you should make yourself scarce and seem like you are needed somewhere else. Hanging around her for hours, will portray a negative image on your part. In that case, you should show her that you have other things in your life apart from that. However, you should call her later to show her that you are interested.
3a. Mistake #1 of Approaching: Avoid openly making your intentions known
Avoid hinting at her romantically or sexually on that first approach. Most men think that they should let the woman know right on that first approach, but this is usually bad timing. Examples of such mistakes are asking her for a date right away, asking her if she is attached or just trying to convince her that they are the right guy for her. Worse still, some take it even further by trying to tell the girl how wonderful the date is going to be, what they'll be doing when the girl has no desire to hear those things right when you have just approached.
Dress properly in the right attire
First impressions are very important when approaching a girl you like. Your dressing should thus be presentable and neat at the same time. However, you should be careful so as not to overdo yourself in terms of dressing. Maintain your attire up to a certain point and make sure that you are well groomed. This will give you the desired confidence when approaching a girl. With these tips, you will be able to gather enough courage in your quest.
Limit your time with her after the first approach
It is not wise to have long conversations with a girl on the first approach. Most men are prone to making this mistake in the dating world. On the first time approach, a girl will always excuse herself claiming that she needs to be somewhere else. This is natural for most women. This means that you should be able to find a reason to keep the first time approach short and quick. This will prevent you from making some obvious mistakes that could ruin your chance with her.
2. What Then Should You Do When You Approach a Girl You Like?
Asking or giving too much information on the first time you are approaching a girl might make her uncomfortable. Remember that you are a stranger to her. In that case, you should ask for her contact information like her phone number. The conversation should be short as it is only meant for introductions. After getting her contact details, you should make yourself scarce and seem like you are needed somewhere else. Hanging around her for hours, will portray a negative image on your part. In that case, you should show her that you have other things in your life apart from that. However, you should call her later to show her that you are interested.
3a. Mistake #1 of Approaching: Avoid openly making your intentions known
Avoid hinting at her romantically or sexually on that first approach. Most men think that they should let the woman know right on that first approach, but this is usually bad timing. Examples of such mistakes are asking her for a date right away, asking her if she is attached or just trying to convince her that they are the right guy for her. Worse still, some take it even further by trying to tell the girl how wonderful the date is going to be, what they'll be doing when the girl has no desire to hear those things right when you have just approached.
Dress properly in the right attire
First impressions are very important when approaching a girl you like. Your dressing should thus be presentable and neat at the same time. However, you should be careful so as not to overdo yourself in terms of dressing. Maintain your attire up to a certain point and make sure that you are well groomed. This will give you the desired confidence when approaching a girl. With these tips, you will be able to gather enough courage in your quest.
About the Author:
Do you want to learn the best tips on how to approach a girl you like? Leonard Calvin is a dating expert who specializes in helping men learn good flirting tips. You can visit his website at How to Attract a Girl Tips and get a 30 Seconds Seduction Secrets mini-course for FREE!
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