After College Meet Is Far Difficult To Find

Publié par Unknown on lundi 19 mai 2014

By Minnie Whitley


People in college find it easier than normal to get a date. It is interesting to note how things become different immediately one gets out of college. After college meet is not easy to identify. Again the number of men and women that one comes across daily are few. When one is working they spend most of their time with workmates and close people they live with.

It is easy for one in college to find their love because they have several people to choose from. Again the school environment is conducive for meeting different people. Every time you go to the dining hall, attend a flat party, to the library or football games you come across new people. This kind of environment makes one have a variety of he can choose from.

Life changes when one leaves university. Unlike school where one used to engage in a variety of activities in a day, life starts revolving around work and home. One has limited variety to choose from because you spend most of the time with workmates.

The transition after college can be depressing for some people. It can be difficult to adapt to work home rat race. One wakes up, they go to job, in the evening they go home, take their supper, then go to bed. They have to repeat the same routine the following day. This kind of a lifestyle means that you rarely have time to meet women and whenever one does the options are limited. This is due to the fact that pool of women they choose from is limited from those they meet at work place and close neighbors.

As people grow older and approach thirties they accept that it is far difficult to find a life partner than they first thought. Most of the people caught up in such a scenario are those that are too busy with their work. As one get older they begin to realize it is increasing difficult to find someone you can tolerate let alone love. Those who have tried dating after school are disappointed that the few they meet are extreme, have horrible tastes, shitty ideas and qualities.

The ugly truth is that most of the single people we see are not happy. The most exciting moments in the life of a human being is when they find a true love. Research has it that no one envisioned that they would be single. When people find themselves so busy that their life is ruled by work, it is time to stop and reflect. Perhaps engaging in social activities may work for them.

There several strategies that can help one find a date especially if they are too busy to go out and bump into new people. Online dating is the fastest and easiest way to come across new people. It is also important that cultivate the culture of engaging in outdoor activities such as a walk. Most importantly despite how busy you are try set aside some time to pursue your passions such as sports.

Every one you meet after university has a hidden motive. Most of the women want to get married while majority of the men are looking for someone to have fun with. This factor has made it more difficult to understand people and eventually one walks away feeling disappointed.




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