What do women really look for in a guy? All of this depends upon who you ask. Ask a woman and she will tell you one thing but ask a guy and you'll get a different answer. Most guys will tell you that women like guys that are handsome or muscular or that girls like a guys who are rich who can spend money on them. The truth is often more confusing when a girl tells you that she is just looking for a nice guy. Who do you believe and what's the truth? How can you, as a single guy, know what single women are looking for in a guy so you can get in a relationship with a girl that you find attractive?
Most guys will tell you that women are attracted by money and guys that have a lot of money. They'll even show you social proof of this fact by telling you about rich guys that have their pick of women or women that do go after guys with money. As a result, many guys are led to believe that in order to date very attractive women you need to buy their affection. Many guys feel that all hope is lost unless they are rich so they settle for low hanging fruit or women that they know are already attracted to them or below their standards.
The truth is that there are women that chase guys with money. These women are gold diggers. This shouldn't come as a great surprise. Of course, this doesn't mean that all women are gold diggers. Most women will tell you that a guy who is wealthy is actually a turn off if he feels that he can buy her affection. The majority of women will reject a guy that comes on too strong or who is accustomed to dating gold diggers. So, money isn't necessary to date a beautiful woman and if you are wealthy, let that be a little secret that you reveal once you know that she's into you.
Well, if women don't look for riches in a mate then they surely must judge guys based upon looks. This is how most guys initially become attracted to women so the same must be true for most women, right? Women look for the most handsome or the guy with the biggest muscles since this denotes strength and virility, right? Women who are in shape tend to date guys that work out. Famous models are always seen with guys that look like models and movie stars date their co-stars. This is what we are told in the media. It is what we see every day so it must be true, right?
This thought or myth that beautiful women only date guys that are good looking or physically fit comes from how men think. Men are visual in nature and we judge women by how they look. Women aren't wired this way. Women look beyond physical appearance. Often models, actresses and people who work out a lot wind up with other models, actors and muscular guys because they spend a lot of time in the same places and in the same circles. These guys also have the confidence and time to create a connection with these women and you will be surprised to find that these beautiful women aren't as judgmental as you might think. Sure, you should be tidy looking and free from offensive odors but physical appearance isn't nearly as important to a woman as most guys think.
Many women will tell you that they are looking for a nice guy. They will tell you that they wonder where all the nice guys have gone or they'll complain that all the good guys are taken. You might think that if you could just show her how nice you are by being polite and being thoughtful then she will fall in love with you. If every woman is looking for a nice guy then you become that nice guy that every woman is looking for. This is the perfect plan.
You probably already know that women tend not to go for nice guys. If it was true then you'd be dating a super model by now. While being nice is important in a relationship, many guys make the mistake of being nice to try to impress a girl. This causes something strange to happen. You appear a little desperate or needy when you go out of your way to be nice to a girl before you have created any rapport or a connection with a girl. Being nice comes later. Being bad also isn't a way to attract the attention of a pretty girl either, no matter what anyone has told you.
The truth about what women really do desire in a man might be a little shocking to you but here's the truth. Women look for a man that is genuine and true. They want a man that is dependable, strong and who instills a feeling of being protected when they are with him. They feel as if they are able to talk about anything with him including their fears and dreams. A woman wants a man that is emotionally strong and wise. They want a man that is secure enough in himself to be genuine when he's around her. It takes a real man to be himself and not play games when he has found the woman of his dreams. If you can pull that off without flinching then you have a chance at dating some of the most beautiful women in the world.
Most guys will tell you that women are attracted by money and guys that have a lot of money. They'll even show you social proof of this fact by telling you about rich guys that have their pick of women or women that do go after guys with money. As a result, many guys are led to believe that in order to date very attractive women you need to buy their affection. Many guys feel that all hope is lost unless they are rich so they settle for low hanging fruit or women that they know are already attracted to them or below their standards.
The truth is that there are women that chase guys with money. These women are gold diggers. This shouldn't come as a great surprise. Of course, this doesn't mean that all women are gold diggers. Most women will tell you that a guy who is wealthy is actually a turn off if he feels that he can buy her affection. The majority of women will reject a guy that comes on too strong or who is accustomed to dating gold diggers. So, money isn't necessary to date a beautiful woman and if you are wealthy, let that be a little secret that you reveal once you know that she's into you.
Well, if women don't look for riches in a mate then they surely must judge guys based upon looks. This is how most guys initially become attracted to women so the same must be true for most women, right? Women look for the most handsome or the guy with the biggest muscles since this denotes strength and virility, right? Women who are in shape tend to date guys that work out. Famous models are always seen with guys that look like models and movie stars date their co-stars. This is what we are told in the media. It is what we see every day so it must be true, right?
This thought or myth that beautiful women only date guys that are good looking or physically fit comes from how men think. Men are visual in nature and we judge women by how they look. Women aren't wired this way. Women look beyond physical appearance. Often models, actresses and people who work out a lot wind up with other models, actors and muscular guys because they spend a lot of time in the same places and in the same circles. These guys also have the confidence and time to create a connection with these women and you will be surprised to find that these beautiful women aren't as judgmental as you might think. Sure, you should be tidy looking and free from offensive odors but physical appearance isn't nearly as important to a woman as most guys think.
Many women will tell you that they are looking for a nice guy. They will tell you that they wonder where all the nice guys have gone or they'll complain that all the good guys are taken. You might think that if you could just show her how nice you are by being polite and being thoughtful then she will fall in love with you. If every woman is looking for a nice guy then you become that nice guy that every woman is looking for. This is the perfect plan.
You probably already know that women tend not to go for nice guys. If it was true then you'd be dating a super model by now. While being nice is important in a relationship, many guys make the mistake of being nice to try to impress a girl. This causes something strange to happen. You appear a little desperate or needy when you go out of your way to be nice to a girl before you have created any rapport or a connection with a girl. Being nice comes later. Being bad also isn't a way to attract the attention of a pretty girl either, no matter what anyone has told you.
The truth about what women really do desire in a man might be a little shocking to you but here's the truth. Women look for a man that is genuine and true. They want a man that is dependable, strong and who instills a feeling of being protected when they are with him. They feel as if they are able to talk about anything with him including their fears and dreams. A woman wants a man that is emotionally strong and wise. They want a man that is secure enough in himself to be genuine when he's around her. It takes a real man to be himself and not play games when he has found the woman of his dreams. If you can pull that off without flinching then you have a chance at dating some of the most beautiful women in the world.
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