The need to talk to your ex can be overwhelming at times. The urge to call your ex and want to talk about what went wrong in your relationship can turn to frustration if your ex is avoiding your calls. Is there a way to force your ex to return your call or make your ex pick up the phone when you call?
Surely, talking on the phone is the first step to getting back together with your ex, right? After all, how can you possibly talk about reuniting if your ex won't communicate with you. The problem is that your ex has no desire to talk about getting back together right now. This is why they're avoiding your calls. In order for you to connect with your ex again, you're going to have to be clever. You're going to have to be patient and these tricks will help you to get back in touch with your ex and have the two of you talking again in the shortest amount of time possible.
The first thing you need to do is to stop calling your ex for a while. If you have been calling your ex a lot and you haven't gotten any response from them then continuing to call is only going to annoy them. Tricks such as leaving message asking that your ex call you back because you have a question or that it's urgent that they call you back will only make you appear needy and a little crazy. You want to avoid this at all cost.
The amount of time that you're going to have to wait before trying to contact your ex will depend upon how hard you have been pushing them to get back together. If you have been calling every day or multiple times a day, you might have to wait a week or two before you attempt to get in touch with your ex again.
Secondly, your life during this period where you're not going to contact your ex should be shrouded in mystery. If you ex has been checking up on you through mutual friends or if your ex is friends with your family, you don't want them to find out anything about you through them. You want your ex to get their information directly from the source. You want your ex to begin to wonder what happened to you and what's going on in your life. Don't let anyone know that you're sad about your breakup and avoid posting things to your social networking profiles that might make your ex think that you're still in love with them.
You can further enhance this effect by and create more mystery by using social networking. Avoid the temptation to post things that remind you of your ex such as photos or songs. Instead, post things that tell the world that you're happy and optimistic. Funny things that make you laugh are best. You want everyone to think that you are doing well and that life has returned to normal. If you are tempted to post things that are going to send a message to your ex then it's better that you post nothing to your page. Sad posts or sentimental posts will only tell your ex that you're still thinking about them and you want them to wonder what's going on with you lately, remember?
Lastly, while you might have a craving to hear your that voice that you love so much, initiating contact through text messages would be a better way to get in touch the first time. Text messages will allow you to restrain yourself and say what you need to say no matter what your emotional state might be. Your ex knows you very well and they will be able to tell if you are upset or nervous when they hear your voice. Text messages have also become almost an unspoken rule these days in our society as the way of initiating contact after there has been conflict in a relationship.
Keep it simple and avoid the temptation to tell your ex that you love them or that you want to get back together. Don't even say that you're sorry. All you wish to accomplish is to get back in touch with your ex. This is just the first step towards a phone conversation where you can hear their voice. A simple message asking how they're doing or simply saying hello is all that is required. The response that you get will determine what you say next. You should try to match the frequency and tone of the conversation and avoid allowing this first step towards getting back together to turn into an argument. Be positive and optimistic and remember that it's best to keep things short and sweet. You can get your ex to call you by telling them that you have something funny to tell them but you don't have the patience to type it all. Avoid pressuring your ex and let them take the next step when they feel comfortable.
Your desire to talk with your ex and hear their voice may make life difficult at times. The pain that you're feeling and the rejection that you're bound to experiencing might cause you to impulsively reach for the phone. Your ex was your best friend and your confidante. Every time something happens in your life your mind will automatically think of your ex. You will want to share something with them or tell them what happened to you today. You may feel very alone at times but you can solve this problem.
As you can see, this simple plan for getting your ex to talk with you again will get things back on the right path. These methods will allow you to recreate that connection that you once shared and to get your ex back in your life. Be patient and avoid the temptation to call your ex and you will see that they will begin to miss you. Your contact will probably be welcome after a very short period of time and you very well may catch your ex at a moment when they need you as much as you need them.
Surely, talking on the phone is the first step to getting back together with your ex, right? After all, how can you possibly talk about reuniting if your ex won't communicate with you. The problem is that your ex has no desire to talk about getting back together right now. This is why they're avoiding your calls. In order for you to connect with your ex again, you're going to have to be clever. You're going to have to be patient and these tricks will help you to get back in touch with your ex and have the two of you talking again in the shortest amount of time possible.
The first thing you need to do is to stop calling your ex for a while. If you have been calling your ex a lot and you haven't gotten any response from them then continuing to call is only going to annoy them. Tricks such as leaving message asking that your ex call you back because you have a question or that it's urgent that they call you back will only make you appear needy and a little crazy. You want to avoid this at all cost.
The amount of time that you're going to have to wait before trying to contact your ex will depend upon how hard you have been pushing them to get back together. If you have been calling every day or multiple times a day, you might have to wait a week or two before you attempt to get in touch with your ex again.
Secondly, your life during this period where you're not going to contact your ex should be shrouded in mystery. If you ex has been checking up on you through mutual friends or if your ex is friends with your family, you don't want them to find out anything about you through them. You want your ex to get their information directly from the source. You want your ex to begin to wonder what happened to you and what's going on in your life. Don't let anyone know that you're sad about your breakup and avoid posting things to your social networking profiles that might make your ex think that you're still in love with them.
You can further enhance this effect by and create more mystery by using social networking. Avoid the temptation to post things that remind you of your ex such as photos or songs. Instead, post things that tell the world that you're happy and optimistic. Funny things that make you laugh are best. You want everyone to think that you are doing well and that life has returned to normal. If you are tempted to post things that are going to send a message to your ex then it's better that you post nothing to your page. Sad posts or sentimental posts will only tell your ex that you're still thinking about them and you want them to wonder what's going on with you lately, remember?
Lastly, while you might have a craving to hear your that voice that you love so much, initiating contact through text messages would be a better way to get in touch the first time. Text messages will allow you to restrain yourself and say what you need to say no matter what your emotional state might be. Your ex knows you very well and they will be able to tell if you are upset or nervous when they hear your voice. Text messages have also become almost an unspoken rule these days in our society as the way of initiating contact after there has been conflict in a relationship.
Keep it simple and avoid the temptation to tell your ex that you love them or that you want to get back together. Don't even say that you're sorry. All you wish to accomplish is to get back in touch with your ex. This is just the first step towards a phone conversation where you can hear their voice. A simple message asking how they're doing or simply saying hello is all that is required. The response that you get will determine what you say next. You should try to match the frequency and tone of the conversation and avoid allowing this first step towards getting back together to turn into an argument. Be positive and optimistic and remember that it's best to keep things short and sweet. You can get your ex to call you by telling them that you have something funny to tell them but you don't have the patience to type it all. Avoid pressuring your ex and let them take the next step when they feel comfortable.
Your desire to talk with your ex and hear their voice may make life difficult at times. The pain that you're feeling and the rejection that you're bound to experiencing might cause you to impulsively reach for the phone. Your ex was your best friend and your confidante. Every time something happens in your life your mind will automatically think of your ex. You will want to share something with them or tell them what happened to you today. You may feel very alone at times but you can solve this problem.
As you can see, this simple plan for getting your ex to talk with you again will get things back on the right path. These methods will allow you to recreate that connection that you once shared and to get your ex back in your life. Be patient and avoid the temptation to call your ex and you will see that they will begin to miss you. Your contact will probably be welcome after a very short period of time and you very well may catch your ex at a moment when they need you as much as you need them.
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