Do you wish that your ex was still in love with you? Does your heart tell you that there must be something there but you feel that your ex isn't sending any signals that they still love you? How can you be sure that it's really over and how can you know if your ex still has feelings for you?
While asking your ex if they are still in love with you might seem like a good idea, there's a very good chance that your ex still has feelings for you yet they are incapable of expressing those feelings. Many of us hide our emotions or our feelings become represses and they manifest in other ways through our actions and our words.
The first thing you can look for is to notice if your ex acts angry or upset towards you. If you can recollect a time when your ex lashed out at you or gave you a hard time about how you're acting or about you and your life then you have a good sign that your ex is still in love with you. If your ex become annoyed or emotional when you speak to them or they seem angry with you then they're hiding something and they're probably still in love with you.
You may have heard that hate is not the opposite of love. Feelings of apathy or not caring at all are the opposite of love. If your ex is still in love with you then they will be affected by you and the only way to hide these emotions is to repress them and cover them over with what looks like hate. If your ex didn't care about you, there would be no emotions at all and they wouldn't say a word about you, your life or your decisions in life.
On the other hand, if your ex says that they don't care or if they make too much of an effort to appear as if they don't care, they could still be in love with you. Your ex might be over-compensating for their feelings by putting up a front and telling you that they don't love you or that they don't care about you.
The clue that your ex is in denial and their feelings are the opposite of what they are saying lies in visible clues called body language. All of us can lie and say anything that we want but you can't deny your body language. Take notice of how your ex stands and what they do with their hands. If you notice that your ex appears stern or stone-like then you can be sure that they're trying to hide their emotions that will apparent in their face. If your ex is trying to close off their emotions to you then they will stand with their arms firmly crossed in front of them. Does your ex hide their hands? If you notice your ex standing with their hands in their pants pockets then you can be reasonably sure that they're hiding something from you.
If you notice that your ex avoids you or that he or she is short with you when you communicate then that could be a good sign that your ex is still in love with you. This might also be a sign that your ex feels uncomfortable around you but all of this depends upon how you have been acting since your breakup.
If you have been needy or trying to convince your ex to get back together with you since they left you then you should stop this behavior. It is very unattractive. On the other hand, if you have simply been friendly and you haven't been pressuring your ex to get back together with you then something is up. Your ex is still in love with you and they may have conflicting feelings that are causing them confusion and anxiety.
The emotional turmoil that a breakup causes can be experienced by both you as well as your ex. While you're trying to figure out if your ex does still love you, your ex is doing everything in their power to stick to the decision that they made in ending your relationship. Remember that the harder your ex fights to convince you that they no longer love you, the more likely it is that their true feelings are the complete opposite. You know that your ex is still in love with you. Give them some time to come to the same conclusion.
While asking your ex if they are still in love with you might seem like a good idea, there's a very good chance that your ex still has feelings for you yet they are incapable of expressing those feelings. Many of us hide our emotions or our feelings become represses and they manifest in other ways through our actions and our words.
The first thing you can look for is to notice if your ex acts angry or upset towards you. If you can recollect a time when your ex lashed out at you or gave you a hard time about how you're acting or about you and your life then you have a good sign that your ex is still in love with you. If your ex become annoyed or emotional when you speak to them or they seem angry with you then they're hiding something and they're probably still in love with you.
You may have heard that hate is not the opposite of love. Feelings of apathy or not caring at all are the opposite of love. If your ex is still in love with you then they will be affected by you and the only way to hide these emotions is to repress them and cover them over with what looks like hate. If your ex didn't care about you, there would be no emotions at all and they wouldn't say a word about you, your life or your decisions in life.
On the other hand, if your ex says that they don't care or if they make too much of an effort to appear as if they don't care, they could still be in love with you. Your ex might be over-compensating for their feelings by putting up a front and telling you that they don't love you or that they don't care about you.
The clue that your ex is in denial and their feelings are the opposite of what they are saying lies in visible clues called body language. All of us can lie and say anything that we want but you can't deny your body language. Take notice of how your ex stands and what they do with their hands. If you notice that your ex appears stern or stone-like then you can be sure that they're trying to hide their emotions that will apparent in their face. If your ex is trying to close off their emotions to you then they will stand with their arms firmly crossed in front of them. Does your ex hide their hands? If you notice your ex standing with their hands in their pants pockets then you can be reasonably sure that they're hiding something from you.
If you notice that your ex avoids you or that he or she is short with you when you communicate then that could be a good sign that your ex is still in love with you. This might also be a sign that your ex feels uncomfortable around you but all of this depends upon how you have been acting since your breakup.
If you have been needy or trying to convince your ex to get back together with you since they left you then you should stop this behavior. It is very unattractive. On the other hand, if you have simply been friendly and you haven't been pressuring your ex to get back together with you then something is up. Your ex is still in love with you and they may have conflicting feelings that are causing them confusion and anxiety.
The emotional turmoil that a breakup causes can be experienced by both you as well as your ex. While you're trying to figure out if your ex does still love you, your ex is doing everything in their power to stick to the decision that they made in ending your relationship. Remember that the harder your ex fights to convince you that they no longer love you, the more likely it is that their true feelings are the complete opposite. You know that your ex is still in love with you. Give them some time to come to the same conclusion.
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